From Janis Hutchinson comes this helpful explanation:
Why won't the mothers in the FLDS Church say which of the children are theirs? It may be because in many fundamentalist groups, ALL the women are considered the mothers. I know, that doesn't make sense. But I know, first hand, that in one fundamentalist group in St. George, Utah (The Church of Christ Patriarchal led by John Bryant, of which I was a member for a short time), the principle was this: Since all the women under one roof were considered sister wives, all their children were taught to call everyone of those wives . . .mother. Therefore, while each mother in the FLDS would naturally know which child she actually gave birth to, perhaps they made some covenant to consider all the children of their sister wives as their own, and by claiming any one child as theirs would be considered selfish and a violation of the concept. And if the CHILDREN were asked who their individual mother is, they might honestly not know. This is the way the children were in the St. George group. They really didn't know who their natural mother was. Please be aware that just because this was the concept in the Utah group doesn't necessarily mean that this is the principle that is being practiced in the FLDS Church. But, most fundamentalist groups do copy each other.
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A Former Member Looks at the Mormon Church Today
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Latayne C Scott
Latayne C. Scott is the author of over two dozen published books including the most recent, Protecting Your Child From Predators, and hundreds of magazine articles.